Let’s talk about marriage

I saw a lot of married couples who had problem after a year of living together. Some says it’s normal during the first year due to adjustment period. Though, some become worst to the point of getting a divorce.
Remember that living together is the only time to better know your partner.  It might not show during girlfriend or boyfriend days as they tend to hide it, afraid of losing the other.
So why do people get married?

The reason why people get married is for us to have a better half, to be with, to talk with, to share with your ups and down, to cry and to laugh, to be as one, to act as one, not only a partner in bed but a partner for everything.

It’s nice to sleep at night with someone beside you, it will give you comfort. The kiss and the warm embrace telling you that you are not alone, that whatever storm you might have ahead of you, you have someone to hold and who will hold you back.  And it’s so nice to wake up everyday upon seeing their face, their smile that makes you feel relax and contented, exchanging jokes, ideas. Isn’t it nice to have it?
As we all know, fighting is everywhere not just inside you own home. But what matter is, for all people, your partner is there to listen and understand. Your great absorber

Try to have an open communication, give respect to each of your ideas. And if there’s a problem then why not sit down and talk for a while, unwind, dine out and talk less. Listening is the best way to start with but if you think your partner is not ready to talk, then, give them time ‘til they will be confident enough to say it. Put space for a while, let them come and tell you about their problem. Don’t let the night pass with a small gap and believe me, you will feel better the next day.

Also one thing, I feel so sad that some husband think that they already owned their wife.  as it’s easy for them to bit or hit them just like that. Maybe a girl’s fault perhaps due to over nagging or maybe due to third party, if you have a husband like this then best way is to have a punching bag instead, so that they can kick and punch it to release madness inside their head. Though, whatever happened, always keep in mind that time will pass and it’s so nice to be with someone once you get old, so try to build a strong relationship rather than trying to ruin it as they’re the person you choose to marry with. Or perhaps, try to know your partner better before entering into marriage